Advice from female leaders on owning your seat at the management table

It’s increasingly accepted that gender diversity at the leadership level is essential, not only from an ethical standpoint but also as a strategy to enhance business performance. Research from McKinsey has shown comprehensively that more diverse and inclusive organisations are more innovative and achieve better commercial returns than their less diverse counterparts.

Yet women in leadership positions and those on the path to leadership continue to experience a range of barriers which men do not, while their accomplishments and contributions routinely receive less attention. What can organisations do to deconstruct these barriers, and how can women position themselves to overcome them?

Page Executive’s annual Women in Leadership event is an invaluable opportunity for female leaders to come together, discuss shared challenges, network, and share advice and guidance. Here, we share some of the key insights to have come out of the most recent iteration, which included an extended panel discussion with:

  • Amanda Lennon, Employment Lawyer, and HR Director, Spencer West
  • Deborah Cadman OBE, Chief Executive of Birmingham City Council
  • Jo Kenrick, Non-Executive Director for Coventry Building Society, Sirius Real Estate and others

What challenges do female leaders face?

For all the resources that organisations have devoted to diversity and inclusion initiatives in recent years, women still face many barriers, with their work and contributions often unrecognised. The speakers shared their experiences of being spoken over by male colleagues, overlooked for opportunities, and seeing sexist language and behaviour go unchallenged.

At the event, Jo noted that being able to manifest confidence is critical to ensuring you are seen and heard in the workplace. Jo had several suggestions for enhancing your physical presence in these environments. She said:

Think carefully about how you come across. Look people in the eye and shake hands firmly. And when it comes to making an impact in meetings, I have found it helpful to practice being able to draw together the threads of a conversation to develop clear actions that have a real impact. As well as this, practice interrupting gracefully. People won’t always stop talking to give you room to interject, so you need to know how to do so anyway.

Advice to overcome self-doubt and imposter syndrome

It is also common for women in leadership to experience imposter syndrome and self-doubt, often as a result of being treated as a less significant team member or leader. Amanda reiterated the importance of self-confidence in the face of this:

You have to believe in yourself and that you are in that position for a reason – you have the experience, and you should let that come across when you speak. This is something that takes practice, but over time I have learned to accept it when people disagree with me and deal with people who don’t work in the ways that I’d like to work.

Effective techniques to assert yourself

Against this backdrop, it is invaluable for women to know how to assert themselves and make their voices heard. At the event, the speakers related a few techniques that they have used over the course of their careers to ‘own their seat at the table’.

Amanda commented that she was the only woman on a board of directors for ten years, and during this time she learned to avoid finger-pointing and aggressiveness, instead making strategic use of silence and timing.

By waiting for everyone to finish their arguments and discussions before making your own contribution, you can often come across as more confident and assertive.

Jo, who also has experience of acting as a leader in male-dominated environments, made another important point:

As a woman, remember that your difference is your strength. You will be able to see things from a different angle and unlock the perspective of a wider consumer audience.

How can employers and allies support female leaders?

In order for the workplace to become a truly equal environment for women, employers need to take action and men to provide the right support. When asked how to encourage and elevate women in the workplace, Deborah strongly emphasised the importance of coaching and support networks, commenting:

Mentoring is an invaluable tool to support women in the workplace by opening doors and instilling confidence. It’s very important for strong, confident successful women to present themselves as role models and be prepared to lean down and give a hand to those coming up behind them.

Deborah also noted that issues of gender inequality in the workplace intersect with those of racial inequality, noting that there is not a single woman of colour serving as the CEO of a FTSE 100 company. She said:

To attract and retain women of colour at the senior level, it’s important to be intentional, setting targets, considering unconscious bias, rethinking the way we headhunt, investing more in internal recruiting, and implementing blind recruitment as well. At the same time, more men need to be vocal in challenging sexist behaviour and language in the workplace.

Making flexible working work for women

Amanda and Jo meanwhile raised the importance of flexibility and the concept of ‘equity’ which focuses on levelling the playing field and giving different individuals the tools to access opportunity.

Amanda said:

As a woman, I don’t want to be treated differently to my male colleagues. Instead, there needs to be an inclusive environment for everyone. For instance, I am a working parent, so I need a degree of flexibility so that I can both do my job and be there for my children. It’s about understanding the needs of all individuals.

In the end, real progress comes down to taking concrete and meaningful action. When asked how organisations could make sure that the transition to hybrid working doesn’t disadvantage women with caring responsibilities, Jo noted the importance of truly listening to your people:

If you’re not listening with the intention of acting on what you hear, then you’re just waiting for the other person to stop talking.

Lessons from successful female leaders

At the event, Amanda, Deborah, and Jo were also asked what advice they would offer to aspiring female leaders:


Learn from experience and use your experience in future situations to keep making progress. Work out what sort of leader you want to be. Think about who your audience is when you are speaking to have more impact, but also be true to yourself.


Be authentic, brave, and willing to make hard decisions, even when you’re unsure. Don’t be afraid to be a bit troublesome. Call out things that you think are wrong - people will respect you for it. Find mentors and people who will support you and offer your skills to others too. And never feel that you are above being challenged.


Keep your head up - in six months’ time, you probably won’t even remember whatever particular challenges you are facing right now. As a leader, developing that resilience will enable people to take confidence from you as well.

Page Executive specialises in placing talented executives with employers across a range of dynamic sectors. With decades of recruitment experience and a well-honed expertise in diverse and inclusive hiring, we are always available to help you make a critical new hire or to enter an exciting new role.

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Sarah Bradley, Partner, Page Executive
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